Cutting toxic ties > Holding grudges 🚫💔 #EmotionalFreedom
"When we move past pain and the urge for revenge, cutting off toxic ties with dignity, that's where we discover our true strength and personal triumph."
© Shoshan
Moving on is my superpower 🦸♀️✨ #StrongerThanThePain
We're constantly hit with the idea that payback is the only response to being wronged. But real strength lies in letting go and moving on, not dwelling on the past. What really helps us grow and become better people is our capacity to walk away from toxic situations gracefully, avoiding the downward spiral of revenge. Making the choice to move forward, setting a clear boundary between then and now, is where we truly win. It's our way of saying to the world, "I'm choosing to rise above my pain."
© Shoshan
I choose to be the bigger version of me, not the bitter one 🌱💪 #PersonalGrowth
Rising Above: Choosing Dignity Over Revenge in a World of Pain
I've been scrolling through TikTok, Instagram, and YouTube lately, checking out all these so-called motivational quotes. And what's striking is how many of them are all about getting back at someone, making sure they suffer, paying them back in their own coin. It's kind of wild how much this idea of revenge is catching on.
But here's the thing: choosing to just let go and move on without hitting back feels almost like a radical act. It's not easy, for sure. Dropping the whole revenge plot, not making someone feel the hurt they caused us, takes a lot of strength. Yet, it's this letting go that actually sets us free. Stepping away from holding grudges leads us straight to a brighter and calmer future.
It's about realizing that ending toxic chapters with our heads held high, without stooping to revenge, actually lifts us up. We get better not by making others suffer for their mistakes but by choosing self-respect over getting even. This choice doesn't just help us; it can also show those around us a better way.
Making the call to move on, to draw a line between the past and now, is the real win. It's not about beating someone else; it's about winning our own personal battles, about being the best version of ourselves. This decision doesn't just change our own life; it sends out a powerful vibe about the kind of person we choose to be.
"I choose to be bigger than my pain." That's the mindset. It's not just about moving past the hurt but actually rising above it, refusing to let it define who we are. We all hit that crossroads, that moment when we have to choose. And when we decide to go forward, leaving the pain and the revenge behind, we're really opening up to a life filled with real strength, dignity, and, ultimately, personal victory.
© Shoshan, 02/28/2024
Letting go is winning 🎈🏆 #PersonalVictory
Rebirth Beyond Revenge
In the quiet of the night, I made a vow,
No longer shall shadows cloud my dawn,
Forsaking vengeance, I wondered how,
In the art of forgiveness, I’d be reborn.
I won’t waste days in bitter thought,
Nor let my soul with grudges brew,
My energy for new paths sought,
Towards a future painted in hopeful hue.
I shed the weight of revenge, so heavy,
That anchor that kept me from the sky,
I choose light, my spirit ready,
On love’s path, myself I’ll rediscover by and by.
Step by step, from pain I walk away,
Letting past dissolve in gentle breeze,
My heart now vibrant, no longer gray,
On the horizon, new promises tease.
This is my rebirth, my choice, my call,
A path of peace, my heart dares to tread,
Leaving behind the urge to make others fall,
Toward the light of a new day, I boldly head.
© Shoshan
My peace is worth more than my desire for revenge 🕊️💖 #ChoosePeace